I am the husband to my wife, Ashley and Dad to two beautiful daughters, Alexis and Sadie. Since 2003 I have served as lead pastor of Mission Abilene, a church that focuses on the outcasts of society. I am also the co-founder of the STV MOVEMENT. Most importantly, I am imperfect and flawed, yet by the grace of God I am able to share my story of redemption. Welcome to the chronicles of my soul.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Vacation
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Chapter 1 The Superman Syndrome
As a little boy, I practically idolized him.
Who didn’t? Who wouldn’t want to be
Superman? He is an American cultural
icon that has fascinated scholars and
critics alike as they explore the char-
acter’s impact on individuals and society
as a whole. When I was a kid, my
Saturday mornings were booked solid—
you got it!—right in my living room in front of the television
set, living my life and my dreams of glory through cartoon after
cartoon. Superman was one of my favorites.
One memorable Saturday, I had an epiphany—I decided I
could BE Superman! I ran to my room and donned my
Superman cape, which I was sure possessed superpowers. I
climbed to the highest point of our living room couch, ready to
make my debut. I was going to fly like Superman. With knees
trembling in fear, I trusted my powers and heroically jumped.
Up and away! (Okay, so I wasn’t always the brightest crayon in
the box!)
In midair, I realized my Superman cape was no contest for
gravity. In a blink of an eye, I was lying facedown on the floor in
terrible pain. The cartoon echoed in the background, “It’s a bird!
It’s a plane! It’s SUPERMAN!” and I tragically realized that he
wasn’t me! Hours later when I finally admitted to my parents
how badly I was hurt, we discovered I had a broken collarbone. I
learned a hard lesson that day: there was only one Superman,
and I wasn’t him! I simply needed to be who I was supposed to
be and not someone else.
Sadly enough, this is the same reality for many church
leaders. We read, we observe, and we research what is fueling
other leaders and their churches—the reasons why they are
growing. Then we try to mass-produce the formula that worked
for them. We become generic plastic clones of someone else’s
convictions and inspirations. It took me a while but I finally re-
alized that there is only one Billy Graham and I wasn’t him.
There is only one Martin Luther King, Jr. and I’m obviously not
him either. I am and only can be Chad Mitchell, but I wasn’t
becoming the Chad Mitchell that Christ created me to be.
Please don’t misunderstand me; I wholeheartedly believe
that every Christian should have role models to inspire and en-
courage them—that “cloud of witnesses” spoken about in
Hebrews. But if all I do is copycat another person or idea, I my-
self will become purposeless—empty and burned out as a result
of not pursuing my own unique gifts. I can’t do another person’s
job. I can only do what God has uniquely called me to do. No
matter what role we carry in ministry, we are all designed and
created for a special purpose—a purpose no one else can fulfill.
One is no less and no greater than the other because it takes all
of us to fulfill God’s plan. Through nothing less than the inspi-
ration of the Holy Spirit, Paul clarifies God’s plan in practical
terms to which we can all relate:
But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part
just where he wants it. How strange a body would be if it
had only one part! Yes, there are many parts, but only one
body. The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.”
The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you” (1 Cor.
12:18-21 NLT).
In the verses above, Paul vividly confirms that each one of
us has an exclusive part to play in the greatest story ever written:
the redemption of man through the sacrifice of Christ Jesus. As
pastors, leaders, and even laymen, we make up the church: the
body of Christ. A pastor alone is not the whole church. Just as
the eye cannot do the hand’s job, I cannot do Francis Chan’s job.
God has placed him in Simi Valley, California, to minister and
serve in ways that I can’t serve in Abilene, Texas. I respect and
admire his ministry and outreach. I can gain insight into min-
istry by learning from him, but I can’t be him. My church can’t
and shouldn’t be his church. God’s purpose for me within my
church is exclusive only to me, and if I try to be Chan or
Graham or Osteen, I will fall to the ground broken just as I did
when I tried to be Superman.
As I’ve studied spiritual growth both individually and within
the church over the years, one very glaring and apparent truth
proves itself time and time again—churches grow and thrive
simply because God is alive and present working in the lives of
the leaders and the church body. The methods and formulas
only work when we let God use us as leaders and pastors to
meet specific needs and goals within our individual ministries.
We are uniquely created, each one of us designed for a special
purpose.
When I first became a pastor, I would read everything I
could concerning church growth, the new worship trends, fail-
safe outreach methods, as well as all of the megachurch/super star
pastor success stories. Wouldn’t it be so much easier if there were
a guaranteed method to make our churches grow? Wouldn’t we
all want our church to grow like Joel Osteen’s Lakewood Church
in Houston? Or do we really? Over time, I finally realized that
there is no single growth prescription that works in all cases and
cultures. I was quickly becoming so consumed with modeling
other pastors and churches, I began to morph into someone who
was not genuine—a cheap imitation of whom God intended. I
had to come to the realization that the assembly line of mass
production had to cease, that God created me with unique abili-
ties to impact my sphere of influence. I finally realized that for
me to be the pastor and the man God wants me to be, I have to
empty myself of all my superhero notions and megachurch ideas
so the Holy Spirit can work in me and through me fulfilling the
unique purpose God has for me.
How often we look at someone else’s success and fame and
we become less content with our own ministry. If I forget even
for a season that my church is the Body of Christ, not the body
of Chad or the coolest pastor I most recently read about, I will
get trapped in the “Superman Syndrome,” trying to do ministry
on my terms, not His. Have you found yourself in that position
yet? We want so much to be effective in ministry that we be-
come so full of ideas and visions—our own as well as the latest
greatest church leaders—that we lose sight of the fact that we
are His servants, not His superstars. All that we do must point
to Him and only Him. Many of us remember one of the contes-
tants from the sixth season of American Idol, Chris Sligh. He
risked his fame and fortune as the next American Idol to fulfill
God’s unique purpose, and though he came in tenth place that
season, he shared the message of grace and salvation through his
performances. While on tour with the American Idol, he wrote
a hit single, “Empty Me” that exemplifies the need to get rid of
ambitions and foolishness that we often disguise as ministry.
God has called us to share the gospel of Christ, not the
gospel of the next best thing. All the greatest schemes and lofty
visions of other pastors and other churches will not make my
church, Mission Abilene, just like Lakewood Church nor
should I want that for my church. My calling is to be right
where I am, sharing the love and grace of Jesus Christ through
exercising my own unique God-given abilities. No one else’s
step-by-step ministry plan can embellish what God has called
me to do. He gave me only one model to follow that doesn’t re-
ally have anything to do with worship style, the size of the
church building, or the clothes we wear. There is only one true
way to be Christian—to live out the name and to be like Jesus
Christ. I don’t need a secret formula or superhuman powers; I
just have to commit to love and to live as He did—an extraordi-
nary life.
As each one of us begins to contemplate God’s inimitable
purpose for ourselves as individuals and leaders, I pray that we
first of all set aside all our ambitions. Let’s rid ourselves of what
we want and let the Spirit fill us with the desire and the deter-
mination to fulfill His plan. As I share my story and insights,
our goal is not that you would copy my ministry style or for me
to lay out step-by-step explicit instructions for you to follow to
the letter, but rather for you to use my experiences to discover
how to make your lives and your ministry fulfilled according to
God’s divine design. As we lead and minister in our churches,
our families, and our communities, I hope that each one of us
can daily pray the same words that Chris prayed and sang in his
fifteen minutes of fame. Isn’t it funny that although he lost and
didn’t live out his own dream as the next “American Idol,” he
still won in God’s purpose and plan? The echoes of his heart
and his ministry still ring true. As I share my heart with you, my
prayer is that I will allow God to do the same for me, “Lord,
please empty me.”
INTRODUCTION TO THE SUPERMAN SYNDROME
INTRODUCTION
First and foremost, my intention is to inspire and chal-
lenge fellow Christian leaders to dare to be the leaders God
has called us to be, developing a ministry identity and style
that reaches the unique needs of those within our individual
spheres of influence. It is my prayer that this book will
rekindle each leader’s passion and desire to seek the true heart
of Christ as they, in turn, challenge those within their reach.
Second, this book exposes the average American church
member’s common misconception that it is the sole responsi-
bility of church leaders or the pastor to share the gospel.
Regardless if we want to admit it or not, God ushers each
one of us into place of leadership the very moment that we
choose to accept Jesus Christ as our Savior. In Romans
10:14-15 (NLT), Paul explains:
But how can they call on him to save them unless they be-
lieve in him? And how can they believe in him if they
have never heard about him? And how can they hear
about him unless someone tells them? And how will
anyone go and tell them without being sent? That is why
the Scriptures say, “How beautiful are the feet of messen-
gers who bring Good News!”
In all of His infinite wisdom, God could have selected
any vehicle possible to share the message of His gospel. But
He didn’t, He chose mankind to be His spokesman—to share
our own personal salvation experience with others who don’t
know Him. Once we have encountered the Christ of the
Cross and we believe the miracle and victory of His resurrec-
tion, we are chosen to share the redemption story with others.
He saves us and in turn, we are called to tell others.
But He didn’t suddenly give us superhuman powers to save
them ourselves. That’s not our job. He calls us to use our own
unique abilities—and yes, our weaknesses also—to offer the
rest of humanity the opportunity to accept the same saving
grace we have so freely received. We speak; He saves. You see,
we didn’t “choose” a career: He chose us to be His hands, His
feet, and His voice! In that order: He calls us; we answer and
obey.
FOREWORD TO THE SUPERMAN SYNDROME
FOREWORD
Truth. Big word. We are living and ministering in a world that
believes there is no such thing as absolute truth. Those thoughts
permeate throughout our culture and, sadly, our churches. Recently,
I was studying the book of Ruth and was reminded of the story’s
setting: “in the days when the judges ruled” (Ruth 1:1 ESV). As I
tried to imagine what that world would look like, the final words of
the book of Judges rang in my head, “in those days there was no
king in Israel. Everyone did what was right in his own eyes” (Judges
21:25 ESV). I thought, “Wow, what a horrible time to be alive!”
and then I realized we are living in the same sort of days. Everyone
is doing what is right in their own eyes! Truth today has taken on
an entirely different meaning. Many of those we are ministering to
doubt the existence of absolute truth. The reality is they believe that
their truth is truth. Whatever they think, feel, or believe about
something is truth to them, including the Bible.
The worst part is that there are pastors who are innocently be-
ginning to bend on truth in their ministries due to a lack of focus
from the King of kings to peripheral items that are not making a
bit of difference for the kingdom. We are driven to look the part in
every way and to have what we believe will bring in the people.
The question is: What are we sacrificing for this? We are trying to
do it all: big buildings, bright lights, snappy music, and slick cam-
paigns. There is nothing inherently wrong with those things except
that other things are taking the back seat such as prayer, study, and
biblical truth on Sundays.
Have we become so busy running our churches that we have
forgotten the Truth? Are we contemplative at all or are we too
busy? We shake our heads when we think of those in this culture
that are beginning to pass on truth, all the while allowing them to
creep in and take control of our churches. We are contributing to
the putrid relativism of our time! That is why the book you hold in
your hand is so refreshing. It is nothing but truth. As I read
through it, I found myself cut to the core many times. I needed to
hear some of the things Chad has written here, as I often think
that I am the modern day church Superman. I had to deal with a
lot of issues during my time on these pages. And you know what, it
was great! I am fortunate to have many friends that are pastors,
evangelists, educators, and missionaries. I love them all dearly but
shudder to think how many of us sweep things under the rug.
Chad Mitchell has exposed his heart for the Lord and for
people in a very powerful way. We do think we can do it all. We
want to do it all. We want to make a difference for Jesus. But we
sometimes get so busy trying to do it all that we lose focus on the
one thing that truly matters—Jesus and His love. What are we
trying to do, build our kingdom or His? My friend has exposed
himself and his ministry in unbelievable ways in the following
pages, and I pray that you read this as I did—prayerfully ask the
Lord to show you ways to move your ministry back toward truth,
not your truth, but the truth found in the Scriptures and at the
Cross. We have all done what this books speaks of. The question is,
will we be open to change or continue trying to be Supermen?
Thanks, Chad, for sharing truth and love. Thanks for ripping back
the false façade that surrounds so many of us today. Thanks for re-
minding us of the real Truth and for making us take an inventory
of our lives and ministries.
Don’t put this book down until you have allowed it to absorb
into your ministry. Buy a copy and give it to your best friend in
ministry. May these words start a revolution for the One who gave
His life for us. Let’s allow these words to change our focus from
ourselves back to Alpha and Omega. I pray you are blessed by
these life changing pages.
Trace Michaels, Pastor,
South Pointe Church, Abilene, Texas